The only person you need to forgive to heal is you! Make peace with you. Forgive yourself for any part of the bad thing that happened to you, that you feel you are responsible for causing. You don’t cause anyone to abuse you. That was their decision, and the responsibility for their behavior is on them. You don’t cause anyone to treat you badly.
And as far as forgiveness, you don’t need to forgive them to attain healing for yourself. You need to be kind, compassionate, caring, and forgiving to yourself.
Absolutely, stop beating yourself up!!!
They can seek forgiveness for their own self - if they gain insight enough to acknowledge their own bad behavior and take responsibility for it.
Let them seek forgiveness with their own God/Goddess/higher power. That is their responsibility.
You take good care of your beautiful self.
Amelia Hasenohrl, LPC, CHt.
August 2, 2024
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